Comments on: Friends.

By: Laura

Laura — Mon, 04 Oct 2010 03:14:40 +0000

HI Candy. I know how you feel. It

By: Candy

Candy — Thu, 06 May 2010 04:19:33 +0000

Joseph – Sure you can. I’m happy you got some ideas here, glad I could help.

By: Joseph Lewis

Joseph Lewis — Wed, 05 May 2010 22:28:15 +0000

Thanks for writing up your ideas on making friends. I enjoyed your unique perspective on the subject. I find that most of the close friends that I have now are guys I met in college. I wrote up a post showing people how I did it. I got some good ideas from your writing, do you mind if I use them and link back to this post?

By: Candy

Candy — Wed, 05 Aug 2009 23:18:53 +0000

Thanks for all the support everyone. I didn’t expect many comments or e-mails or anything. I’m not one to talk much about my feelings (feelings? what are those?) but this needed to be said. I’m usually not this much of a downer either, just that certain people bring me down once in awhile. But I usually snap out of it pretty fast. :)

By: Kii

Kii — Wed, 05 Aug 2009 13:43:37 +0000

I am sorry for your loss. Am sorry that you had friends that never cares. I agree, you don’t owe them the friendship. True friend are as difficult to find as true love. I don’t have many close friends but I only keep those that are true friendship to me.

By: IrishPirate

IrishPirate — Wed, 05 Aug 2009 00:20:11 +0000

We are always here for you, girl. If you ever need anything, please let us know! :)

By: Candy

Candy — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 12:49:43 +0000

Kier – you didn’t do or say anything wrong!!! I was talking about the people that are (were) close to me everyday. Everything you said or did was fine. It’s great that even though we haven’t seen each other in about 5 years, you took the time to write to me and even thought about how I would feel when Mother’s Day came along.

I guess this was my indirect way of giving my other friends an explanation of why I haven’t talked to them anymore. I got a lot of harshly written e-mails calling me out as a horrible person. And that hurts, especially since I never would’ve treated them the same way they treated me.

By: Kier

Kier — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 01:52:07 +0000

I think about you, and your loss, pretty often. I never want to see like the creepy friend who asks a million times about the miscarriage…but it’s in my head, and you’re in my heart.
I hope that my reaction and response, when you first told me what had happened, wasn’t inappropriate or ass-ish. I hope that I wasn’t one of the people who hurt you. I hope that nothing I’m typing sounds dumb or causes more pain.

I think about you a lot, and I worry how you’re doing. I guess that’s it…

By: Soup Belly » Friends. – The Facebook News

Soup Belly » Friends. – The Facebook News — Mon, 03 Aug 2009 03:50:14 +0000

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By: Hummingbird Appetite

Hummingbird Appetite — Mon, 03 Aug 2009 03:28:23 +0000

I’m sorry for your loss. Some actions lead to a justified end in friendship. I sent you an e-mail.